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A couple months back I went to rural Maine and started talking with some locals. And I realized that they’ve got it all right- they have it all figured out.
They have close, meaningful relationships with people they can see regularly.
You realize that beaches are really fucking boring after a month, and even when you’re bored out of your skull, your friends still envy you – but only because they’re sitting at their desks.
You have money, and you have freedom, and you’re doing fun stuff to cross off your bucket list – but you still feel listless. Unfortunately, money and freedom are just a very tiny part of the picture. Second – “Lifestyle design” is just another way to distract yourself.
I’ve often talked about distraction a lot – it’s one of the main coping mechanisms that people have when they hate the shit out of their daily existence. Sometimes it’s easier to drink yourself stupid than fess up to yourself that your relationship isn’t working.
In a positive sense, even people with great spouses that they’re dating or married to sometimes fantasize about being single.
In other words, they’re getting all they want here, so they don’t need to go there.
I think lifestyle design is just yet another desire – another want – another distraction – that is preventing you from enjoying your life.
And it’s most often appealing to people who are working full-time that don’t have resources to travel or enjoy their life (remember rule #1 about human nature?
We want what we don’t have, and we over-estimate how much this will boost our happiness).
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I got a remote job on the computer – it paid $15 an hour which was way more than enough if I was working remotely (or even paying American rent somewhere outside of a major city). (I wrote about this before when I talked about why not to quit your job and travel the world).